Howzit sdn!<P>I never got the exact date on OW so I can't include her here. If you still want it, let me know otherwise, who needs HER, right?! <P>You were born 1/2/59 making you a Capricorn/(Earth)Monkey<BR>Your H was born 7/6 or 8? I can't read my scribble!/54 making him a Cancer/(Wood)Horse\<P>Compatiblity for Horse with Monkey:<P>A mutual desire to stay abreast of events, mingle in society and be part of what's happening in the outside world will constitute the initial attraction between these two. Monkeys are so versatile, imaginative and amusing that Horses have trouble in resisting their charms. Monkeys can feel that serious Horses need cheering up and are inspired to make them laugh. Monkeys also appreciate the hardy Horse's strict sense of duty and ability to endure hard work. They love to join forces and solve problems together.<P>Communication may not be their strongest suit. Monkeys are inveterate neurotics who cherish their unhealthy behavior patterns and don't open up easily. Horses are guarded and conservative about speaking up on their own behalf. Much tension may build. They should agree (before reaching the ulcer stage) to see a therapist regularly. Otherwise, unexpressed emotions will cause the death of their union. <P>A brilliant sex life is in store for the Monkey/Horse couple. They are mutually energetic and fanciful about romance. Horse may want more sex than does Monkey but Monkey's fertile imagination will more than compensate for lack of appetite. As long as these two don't sit around complacently patting each other on the back about how well their couple "works", they can create a lasting bond. <P>For the Cancer/Horse: Love is what makes his world go round. He finds out very young that what he is looking for is to shower his excessive tenderness and affection on someone worthy and wonderful whom he can love for the rest of his natural life with a burning and excessive passion. <P>He will however, put you on a pedestal and may have his sentimental ideals dashed.<P>Concurrently for the Capricorn/Monkey: You would prefer to be deeply in love forever than passionately in love for a split second.<BR>Moreover, the Capricorn/Monkey's standards for excellence are high. You won't be happy with somebody who looks as if the cat dragged him in when he gets out of bed. Your loved one needs to be meticulous.<P>For the Cancer/Horse--if you love him--and want to be the ever-after love of his life, then put on your dancing shoes. Really. If he loves you and adores your style and has chosen you above all others for the rest of his life till death do you part, you can retire from searching for emotional stability. The Cancer/Horse provides. You, as the loved one, need only to execute the steps of the daily dances with elegance and charm. <P>Under Horse/Men:<BR> <BR>If you feel your husband is straying (!) and want to keep him at home, you might try using glamor tactics. Horse men like aggressively gorgeous women. They find sophistication irresistible: they are turned on by painted fingernails and lots of long, bushy, well-coiffed hair. They especially look for those thin women who look as tho they spend half their lives on tennis courts or in beauty spas. And the Horse man also wants his ideal woman constantly to reinforce his highest opinion of himself, to be a chanllenge to him intellectually and to be completely understanding of all his sexual and emotional needs. <P>Now THAT'S asking a little too much in my opinion--I just typed that verbatim. Unless you do spend all your days in a spa and on the tennis court!! <P> I guess she's just saying that they like adventure, variety from routine emotional situations and some sexual challenge and excitement. (Things that an affair provides!) His horse wants to run wild!! You occasionally just have to be up to the task, I guess.<P>Good luck, sdn--gotta go for the nite. My "Cat" should be home any minute now. <BR>If you have any questions--let me know.<P>Aloha,<P>Leilana