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My in-laws are now ignoring my phone call, I left a message to appologize about my behavior(from hurt), but I guess they don't like me anymore. Before they were there for me and so nice, now everything is changed. I'm doing a work for them but I guess I will just finish them and leave at the door..<P>I just need to rumble because nobody listens to me anymore..<P>Meg
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I am sorry you are feeling down...<P>Don't know what behavior you were apologizing for, but even w/o any behavior to regret on your part, I can see how difficult in-law situations can get during affairs...since they're probably ashamed of their son's behavior re: the affair, it probably makes interacting with you a bit hard anyway...<P>I know this sounds lame, but try not to take it too personally...I don't think their problem is actually with you...<P>Hugs--<P>Kathi <P>
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Hey Meg,<BR>We listen, rumble at us anytime.<P>Give it a little time with you inlaws. Its probably hard for them to know what is right too. Hopefully they will come around.<BR>Lora
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I know the feeling, too. But my BILs are coming around. There was a short time of cold shoulder, but continued contact with my MIL has helped. (We watched some football together today. BTW how did the Seahawks do?) She is disappointed in her daughter but never shunned me. I accept that the brothers were hurt with all this and are not taking sides. If they do, it may not be with their sister. <BR>Hang tough. Show trustworthiness...and forgiveness.<BR>rrunrr<BR>
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