Just got off the phone with H. He went to a terra card reader tonight. And she says we will not be together. What do you think? Please say an extra prayer for us. This is making me cry.<BR>Thanks,<P>Michelle<P>

PLEASE...do not believe these card readers. Out of desperation I went to one last year, before my H disclosed the affair and was reassured that he was not screwing around!!! I felt so good....I went back for a second reading and was told this again.....Don't believe in this....I don't know you're story but you should believe what you learn from facts and don't ever deny your gut feelings....I wish I had paid attention to mine.

hi michelle,<BR>sending prayers and positive energy your way. Surely h knows this is something not to be taken seriously? cl

Stella & Cl,<P>Thanks so much for your input thats what i thought to. I do believe that God is a much powerful person.<P>Michelle

Generally speaking Michelle, tarot readers will only tell you what you want to hear. They're usually very good at picking up subtle. non-verbal clues from the person they're "reading" for, and then give very general "predictions" that fit with what they think the person wants to hear. <P>If you think about it, "will we stay together?" is an either/or question, so ANY fortune teller, good or bad, will have a 50-50 chance of giving you the "right" answer.<P>Just my opinion, but these "psychics" are bunk.

Sweetpea and cjack,<P>Thanks for your opionions. I really appraicaiate them.

thanks again

[QUOTE]Originally posted by tigger:<BR><B>Just got off the phone with H. He went to a terra card reader tonight. And she says we will not be together. What do you think?<BR></B><P>It is disheartening to hear negative stats when you want your marriage to work out for the better. <P>You did not say whether or not your husband indicated he will take action to line up with the 'reading.'<P>I say don't give up on trying to save your marriage if that's what you really want to do.<P>Love can change a reading. <P><P>------------------<BR>Love hurts no one.

Those tarrot card readers and "Physics" on the tv make me so mad. They are just inflamatory to get you to call and keep coming back.<P>Oh, Tigger, I'm sorry you hurt.

Tigger,<BR> It doesn't matter what a tarot reader or fortuneteller might say. The only thing that can make the marriage fail is for him to stop working on it. Those psychic people are just out to make a buck, and they haven't the slightest clue if the things they say are going to happen or not. They are just making it up as they go along. Your H should find marital advice somewhere else.

Thanks all. Everyones support here is great. I agree with you all, why he went in there I have no idea. My marriage is what i want. I just got the books love busters and surviving an affair and Im reading. God will see us threw this. I d0 not belive them but the words still hurt to hear.<P>Michelle<p>[This message has been edited by tigger (edited September 13, 2000).]

tigger,<P>I ditto everything above. We shape our lives by the choices we make. We pray for strength. We get it from God and with help/support from each other here. What doesn't support your marriage may be out to destroy it so treat it like all other rubbish and just throw it out. <P>tigger, I'm praying for you and am sending you hugs and whatever smidgen of strength I have left in me to you. But I know you are a strong girl even tho your username still gives me the warm fuzzies! <P>For the rest of the forum, that being said, I feel very foolish now! <P>I finally have time to finish something for three more people here who asked and I promised them I would. Would anybody mind if I just did that and then hopefully there won't be anymore requests? (tho I really hate to refuse anyone)<P> It's not tarrot cards or fortune telling (which I think are ridiculous. But has to do with but personality/character insight. I don't consider it evil. LOL, if it is, then I suppose that would make all Chinese and Korean and Japanese people evil! <P> I am a Christian in case you are wondering.<P>I originally meant to give them away as email gifts to people here on their birthdays (which we no longer have access to) as a little uplift, encouragement kind of thing (which I believe it actually did). But alot of people started asking for them and it kind of snowballed from there. I enjoyed doing something for people here who we share so much with and who I feel sincere gratitude and humanitarian affection for. But it is time consuming and I can't keep it up at the rate it was rolling on.<P>Please be very gentle if anyone does choose to respond to this--I'm very exhausted from working a 17 hour shift in Labor and Delivery and feel as if I've been stomped on by a sumo wrestler! <P>Aloha, <P>Leilana