For those of you who responded to the OW calling me. Thanks!! Since then she has called me two more times....I have not told H about the calls (I still feel guilty about this). but last night my H called me at 1:00 a.m. He's a truck driver so is on the road....he told me that he had talked to her and that she said that she wants no contact with him. He said that he was OK with this and no feels that we have no obstacles in our way to recovery. She has called me again to tell me that she did tell him and that she was also feeling good about herself again. What a strange situation this is!!! I'm really happy that she has finally "woken up and smelled the coffee". She said she is now looking forward to a new future and finding a relationship with someone who is not married. Just thought you guys might like to know what had happened. Now I am plan A'ing big time!

Miracles never cease! Congratulations, and good luck on your recovery. You'll be in my prayers!<P>Many Tears

Hi Stella:<P>Could it be that you have one of the few OW that are finally about to see the error of their ways and try to do something about it?<P>My H's OW would call me and tell me that "your H really loves you" and "we don't have a chance as long as you are in the way"<BR>but she never has given up.<P>I'm praying that this OW really means to get on with her life and let your marriage have a chance to recover. Let us know how you're doing. Hope you don't have to go through withdrawal with your H bacause it sucks.<P>Faye<P><BR>

Wow, she sounds like a real person! Hope you have a speedy recovery (that sounds like a get well card) and lots of happy times ahead.

Thanks everybody!!! I've been here at MB since Sept 99 and thought I might never see this day! I believe the OW is sincere about this....we had quite a good conversation. Let's keep praying that everything continues to go well. There doesn't seem to be any signs of withdrawal this time....I believe the affair has died a natural death which is what my H kept telling me was happening. this is the way he wanted it to end. Keep me in your thoughts!