Does anyone out there know how to find your spouses email address. I read in one of the topics about Netscape, however I don't know how to get into folders then users...Help I know he is in contact with the ow but I do need proof before I can make any decisions<P>Thank you

You might try and find some of the details on <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum28/HTML/000480.html" TARGET=_blank> "Snoop Tricks for Betrayed Spouses"</A>...<P>I used a product called WinGuardian to bring about D-day... (search for it on the Internet... about $40.00)<P>Please...<BR>...be aware there will be things you cannot emotionally handle... (in most cases)...<P>Give yourself some time before 'confronting' your spouse... please... <P>Jim

V<BR>Have you tried searching through history? Do you use netscape, or internet explorer? If you use netscape, go to communicator, then tools then history, There you should find an entry that looks something like this,<BR> <A HREF="http://lw8fd.law8.hotmail.msn.com/cgi-bin/HoTMaiL?curmbox=F000000001&a=-1564445528-1564537835" TARGET=_blank>http://lw8fd.law8.hotmail.msn.com/cgi-bin/HoTMaiL?curmbox=F000000001&a=-1564445528-1564537835</A> <P>this is an example of an hotmail account, it will give you the date and time, and basically the info you need to know if he forsure has an account and if he is using it to email someone or get messages. If so, somewhere down the line he has gotten an email conformation of the account. Maybe he has deleted it, but most likely, he wrote it down, or hide the message. Try when your in the email program going to (this is for outlook express) Edit, on the top of the tool bar,then go to find, and then message. When the box opens on what you want to find, type what ever account has appeared in your history, example yahoo... That should give you a good start. When you have done that I can give you some more tips. The reason, I know this is one because I have hacked into atleast 7 or 8 of my H. And Me and Him own a computer business. Let me know how it goes.

Thank you for the information. His address isprofessor101@kansascity.com do I go into his email or my email. I wish I were a savvy as you are, but I am just learning. Or could I go into Yahoo email and find it there.<P>Thank you

A website called <A HREF="http://www.chatcheaters.com" TARGET=_blank>www.chatcheaters.com</A> offers several products. Also, the host has a chat option that allows you to ask him questions on the spot. His "mission" is to stop chat cheating before marriages/relationships are destroyed.<P>good luck - periwinkle

V<BR>Does he receive all of his emial on the computer you are at, or is he able to acess it at work? Did you find an yahoo emial line in the history? If he recieves his at work the conformation might be there. I am guessing he has an alturitive one..such as yahoo hotmail, ect, because he would be needing to find a way to contact OW at home with out you knowing, that is the beauty of those free email services, you can acess them from anywhere. I am not savvy, believe me, I learned all of this the hard way. I wish you didn't have to learn it this way either. I will help you all I can.

V<BR>Is this ow from a chat room or from an A you know about? Mine was from and A I knew about, and this was how he kept contact with her through email, when he was home with me. Actually last night, I found out that he had sent her over 200 and some emails since Aug 18!

He just bought a laptop, and does not use the one at home. Does that make a difference? I am trying to get into his email at work, can I do that???<P>Thank you

It started on a chat line, and they continued privately thru their email

v<BR>If he has a laptop, he could be acessing his work email from there. Does he allow you to view his email on the laptop, or even let you use the laptop? Does he take it with him when he leaves? If so, heres a suggestion, you could copy (write it down)all of the dns, and server information in the laptop, and then get a copy of all the email he has recieved by downloading it down from the server. check his lap top accounts, you do this by going to tools then accounts, it will give you a list of all mail accounts, highlight the one that is his work, and then click properties, there a folder of sorts with tabs on it will come up this is where you find the info you need such as passwords ect...write this stuff down. I can then show you how to set up a fake account to grab his past emials, it's called POP forwarding..

v<BR>I did a search on kansascity.com and it is a free email service...what you need to find, is his conformation letter it will look like this<P>" We have received your registration for 'kansascity.com's' free e-mail. Thank you for joining our online community. <P>Your username is: noodles<P>Please write down your user name and memorize your password. If you forget your user name or password, please e-mail our customer service representative at kc@kansascity.com. Be sure to include your name, primary e-mail address and zip code in the body of that message."<P>it from kansacity.com, you know his user name, which is the first part of his email address isproffesor something..now, if he registired under the correct name, and zip code, you should be able to find his account information, one thing, which email address did he use as primary, maybe the one at work, or your home, try that..<P><BR>

He keeps his laptop at his job and will not bring it home. Am I at a dead end? He never uses the computer at home. If I change his password will he know when he tries to get in?<P>Thank you for all your help noodles

I hope not. Let me think...is it his laptop? or the place he works for? If it is his, why does he keep it at work, that is an answer in its self. Chin up! no problem, just helping some one with something I learned the hard way.

Noodles....<P>You are such a God send...He is a teacher of technology and keeps his laptop at school. I don;t think he wants me in it. He lied to me when he bought it, and just came clean with me the other day. I have a feeling he is still emailing this women. I found his emails when he was on hotmail, the password was easy to change, but this one at kansascity isn't as easy. Any help would be appreciated...

Noddles and V,<BR>How in the world did you get in the hotmail account w/out sp knowing. I thought hotmail gives you another password. won't that alert sp? My H has hotmail and I've been trying to crack code for weeks. Good thing is he doesnt clear the history and temp folders and i've seen some infor when I go offline, Help<P>Fury

V-<BR>We might be at a dead end. When did he get this email account, before or after he got the laptop? If it was before, do a search on your computer in email and put kanascity.com as what text to find. See if anything comes up.<P>Fury- do you know his user name? or email address? If you do hotmail is easy to crack, if he gave your email address as current emial address, so where along the line he has gotten a conformation, look for it. If you can't find it, go to hotmail, assuming you know his user name, and try logging on, just type, a fake password a couple of times, and it should come up with forgotten your password, say yes, it will ask you some questions, mabye like zip code, or mothers madien name, then they will send you an emial, with a new password, yes, he will know you got into it, if you tell him, or he could assume, the system is down, whatever, he will more than likely go get another account..grin which you will crack also. See the emails, print them out, before you tell them, that way they can't deny it. What you want to find out is if he is emailing her or other way around, this you will do, who cares if he knows? Do they care enough not to? Sorry to sound so harsh right now, bad day! But I am here to help if you need me.

Fury<P><BR>When H was in Germany I went into his hotmail and changed the password. It will ask you forgot your password? and I just followed the instructions. When I got in I found her email address, and our son emailed them both in Germany. This poor man was living in a dream world, and told her all lies. our son soon straightened her out and the relationship fell apart. But now H wants to contact her again to find out if it was fantasy or real He has a new email address and to change the password is a little harder. That is why I am trying to find a way to do it. And because I am NOT computer savvy Noodles, has been so kind to help me. I feel H has already contacted her, because of his behavior, and I want to find out if my feelings are right on.<P>V

V-<BR>I have read your story on some ealier posts, honey you have been through so much...if any little thing I can do helps..its worth it. Your a strong lady. Hes lucky to have you on his side fighting for him.

He got his laptop and I think he then got the new email acct. Yes, I think I am at a deadend. However, if I am this is God's way of telling me to stop. Noodles, stay strong I will keep you in my prayers....Let's keep talking, and hope God will bless you. If you have anymore ideas, let me know<P>V

V<BR>Maybe this is God's way of telling you to stop. I can honestly tell you, my H gave me his password the other day, I found 200 and some emails, plus a little bonus prize..a pic of him and her kissing. That was about all my heart can take, to know is one thing..to see is quite another. So maybe it is for the best. I would love to keep talking...