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I swear I am not making this up. My wife (WS), who has yet to admit her 4 month affair, was really *****y this afternoon. She had apparently heard "talk" about what she was doing. She said, "I am sick and tired of all these lies!!!"<P>Go figure.<P>WAT
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worthatry,<P>My W (also WS)was doing the same thing, until I had proof and showed her. She still claims to everyone at work etc, that she has not done anything and that everything said are all lies too.<BR>Denial.... yes a new standard... <BR>At this point, anything I read on this board doesn't really surprise me anymore. I feel that ultimately, only the names, places and slight details change, but the story is always the same.....
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I have hard proof also, but I don't want to reveal it quite yet. She's showing signs of stress so maybe something's gonna break soon. Instead of adding fuel to the fire with "proof", I'm gonna sit on the sidelines and watch for awhile. If she comes to me for help, then I'll jump to the rescue.<P>WAT
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I can add my WS's denials as being similar. She too has heard that people have commented on her spending too much time with OM, and suggesting something is between them, and says "I'm sick of everyone making these things up. Why can't a man and a woman just be friends and everyone leave them alone. I'm tired of everyone bugging me about him"<P>I have hard proof too, tons of it, but have neglected to show it. I think the LB aspect will outweigh the gain. Tough decision though. When I confronted, I just said that I have evidence that leaves no doubt. I figure that even though she still clings to the thought that I don't really know, deep down inside she probably knows I do know, because I have provided many accurate details.
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