Your wife posted she brought you here. I can only imagine how unpleasant that must have been for you. <P>I (and I think others would agree) HATE what you did. It hurt our friend.<P>But if you decide to join us here, know you are welcome. We want your marriage to succeed.<P>I've never seen your wife, although I have a picture in my mind. I have "known" her over a 1 1/2 years.<P>You have got a great wife. She has outwardly fought the good fight for your marriage and inwardly fought to heal from the devastation of infidelity. For the most part, that was a battle she could win. What she has really struggled with for all she is worth, was overcoming the dishonesty. <P>She wanted your words and actions to be congruent. She wanted a husband with integrity. More than anything she wanted honesty.<P>She didn't want protection. She wanted true intimacy with the man she vowed to love through life and her vowed to love her.<P>And you let her down. Her hope is fading fast.<P>BUT SHE IS HOLDING ON!!!!!<P>Spend this time wisely. Be honest. Start by being honest with yourself. Then be honest with her. Dishonesty with one you claim to love is the ultimate of disrespect.<P>So how can MB help? Maybe, it is up to you to find a way to make this right and make your life true. No one can do it for you.<P>If you are brave enough to test the waters here, however, you will find some wonderfully supportive people.<P>I can't guarantee you what people will post, but I can say that most will tell you their opinions directly, but without being cruel.<P>We want your marriage to survive and to grow and to thrive.<P>We want our friend to have the marriage she has dreamed of and more. We want the same for you.<P>You are welcome here!<P><BR>
