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lies and deciet????
#891446 10/25/00 10:06 AM
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Quick question......what should we do when your H looks right at you and lies..and you know H is lying. When I confront him, he says he feels like I am spying...and feels trapped. H becomes very defensive and becomes mean with H mouth. Should I just not say anything, or wait to bring it up. H hates all the questions I ask him..<P>Kathie
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<BR>Try to stay calm. He will deny it and the more you , .pry, the more he'll retreat. i had evidence and when i confronted my H he still denied it. He's in the fog apparently. If you are still suspicious. Try to act as if nothing is going on. Be alert to any abnormalities, unexplained absences, odd numbers on phone/cell bills, etc. Are you going to counseling to deal with this? You may want to give it a try. I now it's incredible that H's can look you in the face and lie, and I thought my H would never do that to me and he did, while still talking to OW on the phone in the same room.Take heart, all us have been where you are. It might be time to start Plan A. There are others on this board who might have more experience in this because I'm a new BS too, so don't worry you'll get the support you need<P>Blessings,<BR>Fury
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Thanks Fury I need your encourgement...I am going to Plan A, and tomorrow morning I have a counseling session with Harley. A lightbulb went off, and (a little slow) I am beginning to see how I have pushed H away. Infact, H has to make the attempt to see me or call me. I have given his lying to he Lord, and everything else, I just can't drive myself crazy anymore trying to change H. This has to come from H heart, and I have realized H has to come after me. When and if H does, Plan A will be in the works..Hope you are doing ok...is it getting any better? <BR>Kathie

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