Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
| Tax-deductible Donation | Site Tour | Meet Dr. Harley | Basic Concepts | Q&A Columns | Articles | Guidance Forum

Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Forums Calendar Active Threads
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
When to start rebuilding ?
#891640 10/26/00 01:34 PM
Joined: Oct 2000
Posts: 3
Forest Lake, MN
D
Dabi
Offline
Junior Member
Dabi
Junior Member
D Offline
Joined: Oct 2000
Posts: 3
Forest Lake, MN
My wife started to have an affair back in March which just ended (end of october). She broke up because she is in mental turmoil and doesn't know what she wants (him, me, family...). We have two little boys and are married for 8 years. I'm wondering how long her break up will last and how willing she is to rebuilt our marriage. We are separated since october and try to have our own life - which is kind of hard with kids, who stay a few days at her house and then a few days at my house.<P>Question: Would it be helpful to start counseling even when she does not know what she wants, or should i just leave her alone and give her time to make up her mind ?<P>I would appreciate some answers.<P>Dabi<p>[This message has been edited by Dabi (edited October 26, 2000).]
Re: When to start rebuilding ?
#891641 10/26/00 02:18 PM
Joined: Nov 1999
Posts: 1,579
S
schizzo Offline
Member
schizzo
Member
S Offline
Joined: Nov 1999
Posts: 1,579
Are you separated or together?<P>You can begin to Plan A immediately, but it's really up to her.
Re: When to start rebuilding ?
#891642 10/26/00 02:57 PM
Joined: Oct 2000
Posts: 3
Forest Lake, MN
D
Dabi
Offline
Junior Member
Dabi
Junior Member
D Offline
Joined: Oct 2000
Posts: 3
Forest Lake, MN
We are separated since the beginning of october. <P> <BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by schizzo:<BR><B>Are you separated or together?<P>You can begin to Plan A immediately, but it's really up to her. </B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>

Moderated by  Fordude 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 496 guests, and 37 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
Countfunkula, mollye14, Pansu, sakyt, George Mixflicke
72,372 Registered Users
Latest Posts
Following Ex-Wifes Nursing Schedule?
by emelia lucass - 10/23/26 05:11 AM
Infertility
by Samuel Connely - 10/22/26 06:50 AM
Separated/Dating
by abrrba - 10/19/26 12:23 PM
Just checking in
by abrrba - 10/19/26 12:21 PM
Just checking in
by markos - 10/07/26 05:55 PM
What happens if we both have developed aversions?
by Samuel Connely - 10/03/26 02:12 PM
Forum Statistics
Forums67
Topics133,661
Posts2,323,623
Members72,372
Most Online9,682
May 13th, 2026
Forum Rules · Mark All Read Contact Us · Forum Help · Marriage Builders
deneme bonusu
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Feedback | Terms and Conditions | Privacy Policy | Contact Us | Site Map | Account
Copyright © 2025, Marriage Builders, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 8.0.0