ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years recently while i was pregnant with our second child i found out he was cheating through his brother he denied it and so did she after having our child we had and in depth conversation about our relationship he then informed me that he did have some sort of relationship with her but nothing extreme but he would no longer see her because he wanted his family.. a few days later i come to find him leaving her house so i go there to confront her she finally admits to everything while there i learn everything including that they had been together for over 3 years he also calls on my cell wondering why im not at home. he then tells her through the phone with me standing next to her he no longer wants to see her and so on she cries she knew about me but i guess denied it like i was she then gives me a ring he had given her which is exactly like mine i would have just told him to hit the road except for the fact we have 2 kids we are only 22 and 24 which makes things all the more harder and i dont want my family to fall apart this has been a long road it is now 2 months later and things have improved dramatically but i still find myself thinking and crying about the past i am trying to look to the future but am not sure how to do it

azsadgirl:<P>I would recommend getting some of Dr. Harleys books and considering calling counseling. There is a link on this site with all of the counseling information that you need. I just wanted to let you know that the people here are great, hang around for a while see what they are doing. I will say a prayer for you!