Last night my H invited himself over to the house...Of course I said yes.....As we got into our conversation regarding his A and how H was acting, H said "maybe I don't want to be here" Why in the world would H call me and ask to come over...<BR>I had a couseling session with Steve Harley last night, invited my H to listen in, and of course I got a negative answer. Steve opened my eyes to a new dimension. I have been praying for surrender and last night I received it. My H is also ADD, compulsive/inpulsive/ grass is greener on the other side....H wants to be single to "enjoy" his life...Steve told me I have to look at it as H is under the influence....and nothing I say or do will help him..Only cause arguments. I am now going into Plan A, which for me will be very diffcult....however, with Gods strength and comfort I WILL do it. To all of you out there, if you surrender ALL to the awesome God, He will show you the way. Be still you will hear His voice. Just know, when you are at the brink of collapse.....He will carry you. Steve's session really opened my eyes to what I have known all along...it was so comforting to just hear it and have it explained to me by a professional......Today I have PEACE..tomorrow you knows<P>All of you have a good weekend....