Hi TT,<P>How are you and kids. Saw that you posted on Allison's thread and wanted to ask how you are. You've been in my thoughts. <P>Has your H been in touch and participating in the kids lives still? Is he still in constant contact w/OW at work?<P>How are you doing? How's school? I hope you're well, Hon.<P>Love,<BR>Jo<P>------------------<BR>Josie_Res@Hotmail.com<P>"Remain flexible like a reed, as opposed to an oak which can snap in the wind"

Hi Jo, yes I am still here...I lurk a lot and try to read up on what is happening with my friends.<P>I am doing well in school. I am so glad to have that to focus on. I pretty much stay out of the public eye here. Not because I am holding my head in shame, but because I just don't want to hear about it all. <P>On a few occasions "IT" has been too much for people and I have had to hear about how everyone is disgusted with the two of them and how it speaks about our society that they would be allowed to work together. And how everyone is disgusted at the head of the group that he allows this because my H brings in a lot of $$$$.<P>So, I stay busy with school and the kids. The kids are doing fine. H comes over a lot and does things with them. I just NEVER discuss anything. I just don't want to be lied to anymore so I ask nothing...say nothing. He is the one responsible for his relationships..<P>Well, my 5 year old just woke up to show me what the "tooth fairy" brought. She lost her first tooth last night...so cute.<P>I hope you are doing ok. Just take care of yourself... I always come here to check up on you and allison...<P>Hey, I actually think it is great if your H comes here. He might be open to discover something about himself!!! Now, that would be novel!!!!!