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Is this good or bad?
#892887 11/07/00 12:46 PM
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Lately H has started talking to me every time he phones the kids - every night. This is usually about financial matters and closing joint accounts etc. He speaks to me for a long time sometimes about 30 mins but it is only when OW is out or he is on his mobile. <P>I keep conversations friendly and I am as helpful as I can be but I am confused.
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Annie H;<P>Your husband is missing you. You are doing great keep it up.<P>Good luck,<P>Judy
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I concur, it is good. Keep it up, pleasant chatter, will make him miss you more.....leads him to think "what am I doing"......etc.
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#892890 11/08/00 07:00 PM
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Thanks for the replies. He spoke to me tonight for 20 mins and for the first time since he left in April he actually said that he was sorry for what he had done to me.<P>I am just trying to understand all of this and take each day as it comes.
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Annie -<P>I agree, it sounds like he misses you. I am glad that he apologized to you - you really must be doing something right. Some WSs never even apologize, so hang in there. If nothing else, at least he's starting to recognize - maybe - the consequences of his actions, i.e., that he hurt a really wonderful and caring person.
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#892892 11/09/00 08:19 AM
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Annie - sounds like you're in the driver's seat. Be cool. Let it happen, don't try to make it happen. Good luck.<P>WAT

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