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#892893 11/07/00 05:44 PM
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I all if you have read any of my post my H can be kind and woderfully then when he is with OW hateful. I feel Im lossing it. WE have a alomist 15 month old S. Im currently without a job so money is real tight here. My H is currently $2000 behind on child support. I have never asked him anything regarding what he is behind. I asked today if he could get me a little extra. He said no I wouldnt even get my next child support because he has already spent it. Nice I get so angry he wants to see Dylan but cant help support him. Its not that he doesnt make enough money he flat just blows it. Evenone prayers her make me feel so much better. Im not real good at writting a prayer for everyone here, but please know I talk with God often and you are all in our conversation. <BR>Thanks<P>Michelle<P>Ps We spent last Wed. together and had a wonderful time. Then how can he turn around and be so ugly. Can any explain? Also does anyone know if someone who gets so far behind on there child support lose their parental right? If i chose to have this done. It would make it alot easier for S. S is a complete wreck when he comes home from H house.

#892894 11/07/00 06:06 PM
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I take it you have a lawyer. Yeah they can lose their visitation if they fall too far behind on their child support.

#892895 11/07/00 07:46 PM
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hi Tigger,<BR>YOu do need to talk to an attorney. Cant you attach his wages and collect thru this easier method? If the court ordered the payment, then a simple call to the family court should take care of that issue.<BR>How can they be so ugly? Well, my dear, many of us have wondered and most of us still have no answers! My advice is to stop asking the why questions-we will never really understand what they try to tell us. <BR>((((hugs))))

#892896 11/08/00 04:18 AM
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Tigger, you do need to get some local legal aid asap... yes, H is not entitled to see son if he is not supporting son. Son doesn't need to be with H if son is a wreck when he returns. You need to tell someone these things so they can help you.<P>CT

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Thnks for all the advice I have a call into my attorney He has not called me back. Sometimes I do not know what I would do with out everyone here.<P>Michelle


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