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Okay, I got a junk email this morning, and since I have off tomorrow (and it feels like a Friday to me), I thought I'd share something "lite."<P>Oh, and just for the record, the first letter of my REAL name is 'K' NOT 'S.' Anyway, I thought this was, well, interesting. (I apologize for the formatting, I didn't really have time to fix it right now.) Anyway, 'K,' for me says: <P> You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love (could that be "fog" they're referring too?). Having a partner is of paramount importance to you (true). You are free in your expression of love and are willing to take chances, try new sexual experiences and partners (Lord, I was doomed from the day I was born), provided it's all in good taste (oh, okay). Brains turn you on (that's not the only thing [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]). You must feel that your partner is intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain the relationship (so my H just needs a PhD?). You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know<BR>that you're being appreciated (true, very true).<P>How about you all? Read the following - for fun. . .<P>According to studies, the first letter of your first name reveals your<BR>>sexual identity ... What do you think?<BR>> -A-<BR>> You are not particularly romantic, but you are interested in action. You<BR>>mean business. With you, what you see is what you get. You have no patience for flirting and can't be bothered with someone who is trying to be coy,cute, demure, and subtly enticing. You are an up front person. When it comes to sex, it's action that counts not obscure hints. Your mate's<BR>>physical attractiveness is important to you. You find the chase and challenge of the "hunt" invigorating. You are passionate and sexual as <BR>>well<BR>>as being much more adventurous than you appear; however, you do not go<BR>>around advertising these qualities. Your physical needs are your primary<BR>>concern.<BR>><BR>> -B-<BR>> You give off vibes of lazy sensuality. You enjoy being romanced, <BR>>wined,<BR>>and dined. You are very happy to receive gifts as an expression of the<BR>>affection of your lover. You want to be pampered and know how to pamper<BR>>your mate. You are private in your expression of endearments and<BR>>particularly when it comes to lovemaking. You will hold off until<BR>>everything meets<BR>>with your approval. You can control your appetite and abstain from sex if<BR>>need be. You require new sensations and experiences. You are willing to<BR>>experiment.<BR>><BR>> -C-<BR>> You are a very social individual, and it is<BR>> important to you to have a relationship. You require closeness and<BR>>togetherness. You must be able to talk to your sex partner before, <BR>>during,<BR>>and after. You want the object of your affection to be socially acceptable<BR>>and good looking. You see your lover as a friend and companion. You are<BR>>very sexual and sensual, needing someone to appreciate and almost worship<BR>>you. When this cannot be achieved, you have the ability to go for long<BR>>periods without sexual activity. You are an expert at controlling your<BR>>desires and doing without.<BR>><BR>> -D-<BR>> Once you get it into your head that you want someone, you move full<BR>>steam ahead in pursuit. You do not give up your quest easily. You are<BR>>nurturing and caring. If someone has a problem, this turns you on. You are<BR>>highly sexual, passionate, loyal, and intense in your involvement,<BR>>sometimes possessive and jealous. Sex to you is a pleasure to be enjoyed.<BR>><BR>><BR>> -E-<BR>> Your greatest need is to talk. If your date is not a good listener, you<BR>>have trouble relating. A person must be intellectually stimulating or you<BR>>are not interested sexually. You need a friend for a lover and a companion<BR>>for a bedmate. You hate disharmony and disruption, but you do enjoy a good<BR>>argument once in awhile it seems to stir things up. You flirt a lot, for<BR>>the challenge is more important than the sexual act for you, but once you<BR>>give your heart away, you are uncompromisingly loyal. When you don't have <BR>>a<BR>>good lover to fall asleep with, you will fall asleep with a good<BR>>book.(Sometimes, in fact, you prefer a good book.)<BR>><BR>> -F-<BR>> You are idealistic and romantic, putting your lover on a pedestal. You<BR>>look for the very best mate you can find. You are a flirt, yet once<BR>>committed, you are very loyal. You are sensuous, sexual,and privately<BR>>passionate. Publicly, you can be showy, extravagant, and gallant. You are<BR>>born romantic. Dramatic love scenes are your favorite fantasy pastime. <BR>>You<BR>>can be a very generous lover.<BR>><BR>> -G-<BR>> You are fastidious, seeking perfection within yourself and your lover. <BR>>You<BR>>respond to a lover who is your intellectual equal or superior, and one who<BR>>can enhance your status. You are sensuous and know how to reach the peak of<BR>>erotic stimulation, because you work at it meticulously. You can be<BR>>extremely active sexually that is, when you find the time. Your duties <BR>>and<BR>>responsibilities take precedence over everything else. You may have<BR>>difficulty getting emotionally close to a lover, but no trouble getting<BR>>close sexually.<BR>><BR>> -H-<BR>> You seek a mate who can enhance your reputation and earning ability. You<BR>>will be very generous to your lover once you have attained a commitment.<BR>>Your gifts are actually an investment in your partner. Before the<BR>>commitment, though, you tend to be frugal in your spending and dating<BR>>habits and equally cautious in your sexual involvement. You are a sensual<BR>>and patient lover.<BR>><BR>> -I-<BR>> You have a great need to be loved, appreciated...<BR>> Even worshipped. You enjoy luxury, sensuality, and<BR>>pleasures of the flesh. You look for lovers who know what they are doing.<BR>>You are not interested in an amateur, unless that amateur wants a tutor.<BR>>You are fussy and exacting about having your desires satisfied. You are<BR>>willing to experiment and try new modes of sexual expression. You bore<BR>>easily and thus require sexual adventure and change. You are more sensual<BR>>than sexual, but you are sometimes downright lustful.<BR>><BR>> -J-<BR>> You are secretive, self-contained, and shy. You are very sexy, sensual,<BR>>and passionate, but you do not let<BR>>on to this. Only in intimate privacy will this part of your nature reveal<BR>>itself. When it gets down to the nitty-gritty, you are an expert. You<BR>>know all the little tricks of the trade, can play any role or any game, and<BR>>take your love life very seriously. You don't fool around. You have the<BR>>patience to wait for the right person to come along.<BR>><BR>> -K-<BR>>You can be very romantic, attached to the glamour of love. Having a <BR>>partner<BR>>is of paramount importance to<BR>> you. You are free in your expression of love and are willing to take<BR>>chances, try new sexual experiences and partners, provided it's all in good<BR>>taste. Brains turn you on. You must feel that your partner is<BR>>intellectually stimulating, otherwise you will find it difficult to sustain<BR>>the relationship. You require loving, cuddling, wining, and dining to know<BR>>that you're being appreciated.<BR>><BR>> -L-<BR>> You are very romantic, idealistic, and somehow you<BR>>believe that to love means to suffer. You wind up serving your mate or<BR>>attracting people who have unusual troubles. You see yourself as your<BR>>lover's savior. You are sincere, passionate, lustful, and dreamy. You<BR>>can't help falling in love. You really enjoy stimulating yourself, though<BR>>you are fairly new to it. You fantasize and get turned on by movies and<BR>>magazines. You do not tell others of this secret life, nor of your sexual<BR>>fantasies.<BR>><BR>> -M-<BR>> You are emotional and intense. When involved in a<BR>>relationship, you throw your entire being into it.<BR>>Nothing stops you; there are no holds barred. You are all consuming and<BR>>crave someone who is equally passionate and intense. You believe in total<BR>>sexual freedom. You are willing to try anything and everything. Your<BR>>supply of sexual energy is inexhaustible. You also enjoy mothering your<BR>>mate.<BR>><BR>> -N-<BR>> You are crap in bed. Much practice and learning is needed. You are<BR>>totally ****ing marvelous!<BR>><BR>> -O-<BR>> You are very interested in sexual activities yet<BR>> secretive and shy about your desires. You can re-channel much of your<BR>>sexual energy into making money and/or seeking power. You can easily have<BR>>extended periods of celibacy. You are a passionate, compassionate, sexual<BR>>lover, requiring the same qualities from your mate. Sex is serious<BR>>business; thus you demand intensity and diversity, and are willing to try<BR>>anything or anyone. Sometimes your passions turn to possessiveness, which<BR>>must be kept in check.<BR>><BR>> -P-<BR>> You are very conscious of social proprieties. You wouldn't think of<BR>>doing anything that might harm your image or reputation. Appearances<BR>>count, therefore, you require a good-looking partner. You also require an<BR>>intelligent partner. Oddly enough, you may view<BR>>your partner as your enemy; A good fight stimulates<BR>>those sex vibes. You are relatively free of sexual hang-ups. You are<BR>>willing to experiment and try new ways of doing things. You are very social<BR>>and sensual; you enjoy flirting and need a good deal of physical<BR>>gratification.<BR>><BR>> -Q-<BR>> You require constant activity and stimulation. You have tremendous<BR>>physical energy. It is not easy for a<BR>>partner to keep up with you, sexually or otherwise. You are an enthusiastic<BR>>lover and tend to be attracted to people of other ethnic groups. You need<BR>>romance, hearts and flowers, and lots of conversation to turn you on and<BR>>keep you going.<BR>><BR>> -R-<BR>> You are a no-nonsense, action-oriented individual. You need someone who<BR>>can keep pace with you and who is your intellectual equal the smarter the<BR>>better. You are turned on more quickly by a great mind than by a great<BR>>body. However, physical attractiveness is very important to you. You have<BR>>to be proud of your partner. You are privately very sexy, but you do not<BR>>brag, you<BR>>are willing to serve as teacher. Sex is important; you can be a very<BR>>demanding playmate.<BR>><BR>> -S-<BR>> You are crap in bed. Much practice and learning is needed.<BR>><BR>> -T-<BR>> You are very sensitive, private, and sexually passive; you like a<BR>>partner who takes the lead.<BR>>Music, soft lights and romantic thoughts turn you on. You fantasize, but do<BR>>not tend to fall in and out of love easily. When in love, you are <BR>>romantic,<BR>>idealistic, mushy, and extremely intense. You enjoy having your senses and<BR>>your feelings stimulated, titillated, and teased. You are a great flirt.<BR>>You can make your relationships fit your dreams, oftentimes all in your own<BR>>head.<BR>><BR>> -U-<BR>> You are enthusiastic and idealistic when in love.<BR>>When not in love, you are in love with love, always looking for someone to<BR>>adore. You see romance as a challenge. You are a roamer and need <BR>>adventure,<BR>>excitement, and freedom. You deal in potential relationships. You enjoy<BR>>giving gifts and enjoy seeing your mate looking good. Your sex drive is<BR>>strong and you desire instant ratification. You are willing to put your<BR>>partner's pleasures above your own.<BR>><BR>> -V-<BR>> You are individualistic, and you need freedom, space, and excitement. <BR>>You<BR>>wait until you know someone well<BR>> before committing yourself. Knowing someone means psyching him out. You<BR>>feel a need to get into his head to see what makes him tick. You are<BR>>attracted to<BR>>eccentric types. Often there is an age difference<BR>> between you and your lover. You respond to danger, thrills, and suspense.<BR>>The gay scene turns you on, even though you yourself may not be a<BR>>participant.<BR>><BR>> -W-<BR>> You are very proud, determined, and you refuse to<BR>>take no for an answer when pursuing love. Your ego is at<BR>>stake. You are romantic, idealistic, and often in love with love itself, <BR>>not<BR>>seeing your partner as he or she really is. You feel deeply and throw all <BR>>of<BR>>yourself into your relationships. Nothing is too good for your lover. You<BR>>enjoy playing love games.<BR>><BR>> -X-<BR>> You need constant stimulation because you bore quickly. You can handle<BR>>more than one relationship at a time with ease. You can't shut off your<BR>>mind. You talk while you make love. You can have the greatest love<BR>> affairs,all by yourself, in your own head.<BR>><BR>> -Y-<BR>> You are sexual, sensual, and very independent. If<BR>>you can't have it your way, you will forgo the whole thing. You want to<BR>>control your relationships, which doesn't always work out too well. You<BR>>respond to physical stimulation, enjoy necking and spending hours just<BR>>touching, feeling and exploring. However, if you<BR>>can spend your time making money, you will give up the pleasures of the<BR>>flesh for the moment. You need to prove to yourself and your partner what a<BR>>great lover you are. You want feedback on your performance. You are an<BR>>open, stimulating, romantic bedmate.<BR>><BR>> -Z-<BR>> For you, it is business before pleasure. If you<BR>>are in any way bothered by career, business, or money<BR>>concerns, you find it very hard to relax and get into the mood. You can be<BR>>romantically idealistic to a fault and are capable of much sensuality. But<BR>>you never lose control of your emotions. You are very careful and cautious<BR>>before you give your heart away and your body, for that matter. Once you<BR>>make the commitment, though, you stick like glue.<BR>><BR>><BR>

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WOW!!!

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A little off...at least I hope so or my marriage has no future.

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Definitely won't be showing this to H. His name starts with "S". roflmao<P>I won't comment on the validity of the description of S. I will say that "P" was pretty accurate.

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Pretty accurate for me! <P>Mitzi [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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SKM-<BR>My name starts with S. What's the deal here? I guess I won't show my H either. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

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right on for both me and H! That's funny.


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