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#894622 11/27/00 10:49 PM
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I know in my gut I shouldn't but I am feeling very tempted to somehow contact the OM. I have posted over in EN and felt maybe this is where I should post.<BR>I am trying to still get over an EA from 4 months ago.<BR>My H knows about the EA.nd we are trying to work on us. I am still tempted by the addictive feelings etc. I stopped the EA by the way. Part of me feels like I still am missing out on something. ISn't this a lie?<BR>I need to hear why so I don't do anything I regret here.<BR>I don't feel in love w/my H anymore so it makes it hard. I am trying hard to work on being loving etc. He isn't into the plan A stuff to much so we are up & down alot. We are in counseling but we ajust don't seem to make progress.<BR>Please help!!<BR>Marilyn Rae

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Hi Marilyn......<P>"Feelings....... are NOT fact!" <BR>Repeat this over and over to yourself.<P>"I am STRONGER every day! I WILL control my addiction!"...... repeat this too.<P>"I am my OWN soulmate for now."<P>Good luck<P><P>------------------<BR>~*~*Yesterday~*~*<BR>all my problems seemed so far away~*

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{{{MarilynRae}}}...<P>Please don't contact the OM...<BR>...especially since counseling isn't working well...<BR>...that is not a good reason to contact the OM!<P>Have you considered MB counseling...<BR>...most find it <B>more focused</B>...<BR>I would recommend that you have a couple of <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi7200_phone.html" TARGET=_blank>telephone counseling sessions</A> (~$95US a pop... but well worth it) with <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi7010_about.html" TARGET=_blank>Steven W. Harley</A> or Jennifer Harley. Check out the <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi7000_counsel.html" TARGET=_blank>Counseling Center</A>... and for some specifics... <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi7015_fee.html" TARGET=_blank>Fees for Counseling Services</A> and <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi7020_sched.html" TARGET=_blank>Scheduling an Appointment</A> (888-639-1639)!<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Jim


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