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Stop kissing in passion after several years into marriage.
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Did any body stop kissing with passion after several years into marriage?<P>My wife stopped kissing me that way for a long time, but when she has an affair, she started kissing the OM with passion again.<P>OOP<P>
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I think we also lost that during and leading up to the time my wife had her A. We had been married over five years at that point. Sometime last summer it did return though. I think it was right around the time she was ending it with the OM and trying to "re-connect" with me. I wasn't fully aware of it at the time because I didn't know about the A for another couple of months, but looking back I can kind of see the changes taking place.
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We did not lose this after just a few years of marriage. However, after many years, much hurt & resentment, I went into the state of withdrawal (of course, I did not know it at the time). It was kinda like I put up an emotional wall to keep from getting hurt again, and so there was lttle emotional closeness, and little great kissing. <P>A couple of years later, he began to realize I did not love him anymore, and he fell for a co-worker. We began working on the marriage, and as soon as the emotional closeness came back, the kissing did too...<P>
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR><B>Did any body stop kissing with passion after several years into marriage?</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>If it's "passion" to have slober (sp?) all over your lips after being kissed, then the answer is yes. But then again, my husband has a really good reason for not doing that anymore......sigh.<P>Miaka

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