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Dear all,<P>It was my daughter's 18th at the weekend and because both my girls and I have cut all contact we haven't heard seen H in over 3 weeks. <P>Last night MIL comes over for birthday clebration. <P>Guess what?<P>It appears H took her shopping on Sat and couldn't stop talking about me. Hope would like this for Christmas, Hope likes to read - she would like this book. This is the sort of thing Hope would like.<P>This despite living with OW for last 5 months. <P>Didn't mention children once.<P>That bit sad. But obviously feeling guilty.<P>Haven't felt this positive for ages. Not getting my hopes up but at least there is still HOPE.<P>From Hope (secretly smiling)<P>and in God's Hand.<P><p>[This message has been edited by hope257 (edited December 05, 2000).]
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Sorry for double posting of topic. Computer and operator(?) out of control.<p>[This message has been edited by hope257 (edited December 05, 2000).]
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Hi Hope:<P>Sounds like your Plan B is working. Great. ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif) <P>I wish we all could remember in our dark hours that our WS may not always be having the wonderful time we think they are. Sometimes our contact with them is so limited or emotion ridden that we don't have a real clear perspective on how they are really feeling. Thank God for 3rd parties ( MILs or in my case SIL). They sometimes can let their guard down with them. <P>I also think we don't often get the true face of what our WS is feeling when we're together...call it pride, guilt or whatever...they don't want us to see how they might be hurting too or acknowledge the mistakes they made..even to themselves. <P>Plan B may force them to finally realize what they have to lose. I know it's hard but keep up the good work.<P>Angels and Prayers ~ Faye <P>
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