I posted this in the Recovery Forum, but thought I'd try here, too. If anyone has any advice by say tomorrow, that would be great. I want to send another no contact letter as soon as I can.<P><Okay, I'm back with the same problem again. This time the OM sent me an email (My H and I have been in recovery for over 8 months, and no contact - absolutely no contact with the OM for over four months - He called just before Thanksgiving and now an email. It's time, I nip this in the bud, again). My H and I agreed that I would send another no contact letter - so I need some help here.<BR>I don't have my copy of Surviving an Affair, but I remember someone posting a really good no contact letter when I first started posting, back in June/July. . .I'll try to do a search on no contact letters, but if anyone has one - or remembers what the book says - please let me know. I need to send one asap. <P>I want to be as comprehensive as possible - leaving no room for miscommunication. So, if anyone has one they could share, that would be great. Any speedy assistance would be greatly appreciated - not only by me but by my H. Thanks.><P>

Sweetpea -<P>Keep it coming. . .I posted this in the recovery section and the responses were very good - but more sedate. I think I will probably use everything you said - almost verbatim - if you don't mind . I don't think he's cocky, just, well, it's just kind of sad that he doesn't realize all the pain and hurt we caused. I hope someday he does - for his sake. Thanks.

Maybe we should collectively gang up on him and send him a letter, and tell him to leave our special SKM alone.