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How do you know when it's time to give up on your WS? It's been about 3 months since d-day and even though H is wanting to reconcile, I feel nothing but anger and resentment for him. I don't want anything to do with him, he repulses me and I'm beginning to fantasize about having a relationship with someone else. Therapist says to wait a while longer before making the final decision, but I can't see myself ever giving him a second chance. My spirits are fairly high (helped of course by the Prozac) and I feel like I'm at peace with the decision I'm about to embark upon. Any final advice before I move to the D/D board?<P>CAV

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One other thing, I don't feel like I've really tried to make the marriage work since H's affair. It's as if I don't want it to work now since he betrayed me. I just don't think that I want to Plan A him. In other words, I don't think that I love him or want to be married to him anymore.<P><BR>CAV


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