Maybe things I'm doing is totally against MB rule, but anyway we are heading for D. My H did the paper work and I brought it to a legal aid.. What the lawyer there told me was it was no good. He thought we should hire a lawyer(we don't have kids and the way we are going to do is non-fault). The problem is, we both don't have much money to hire a lawyer(that's why he did the paper work in a first place). So D is on hold now.. I'm so frustrated, because I was looking forward to being free, and I was looking at year 2001 as a new start for me. Then this mess still has to continue!<P>So what I do now is, finding a lawyer who charges very little, and search the net for D info, so maybe we still are able to do by ourselves.<P>I'm trying to think in my mind I'm already divorced so I don't get hurt any longer while I'm still married to this man.<P>The thing is, I was gonna cut off any contact when we legally divorced. I guess that's not gonna happen for a while.<P>It's too bad I thought this could be a great Christmas gift for me.<P>Sigh..<P>Meg