My husband has fooled me for the last time. D day was 10/22. Living with female coworker. He is 42 this is his second marriage. He has 3 children from his first marriage and a 3 year old son with me. She is 27. I don't know how long it has been going on. He has been playing me. He gives me words like he wants to work it out, but his actions tell otherwise. <P>Asked to see our son yesterday. Said that was fine. When he picked him up at 11:00 a.m. H told me they were going shopping. They were supposed to be home at 5:00 p.m. After my son was dropped off at 6:00 p.m. and my H left, son informed me that daddy had taken him to meet his friend Heather and they were kissing and daddy loves her.<P>When I heard this I got a knot in my stomach. Before my husband left he informed me that he was going to visit the Uncle of a friend of ours who is a priest. Well after hearing this from my son I called Father Pete and he confirmed that Tony was not coming to see him.<P>I went to where the OW lives and confronted both of them. H was shocked because he didn't think I knew where OW lives. I told him after this stunt he could forget about seeing our son today as we originally agreed.<P>H still arrived today and would not leave. I ended up calling the Police. I was trying Plan A and when he did this, I have reached my limit. If he wants out of the marriage, why doesn't he just say so instead of playing both sides of the fence. I don't think I would ever be able to look at him the same way. He lies so much, he wouldn't know the truth if it smacked him in the face. What does a 27 year old girl want with him when he is cheating with her and this is his second marriage and 4 children. She must be an idiot.

Mische,<BR>That is exxactly how I found out about OW. I had suspected an EA when he first moved out. Then of course when he was at his weakest he ran to her and it turned into a PA 1 month after he had left. I saw it coming. She is a Co worker too. She is 26 has no kids never been married. I also asked what the heck does she want with a man who has 2 kids and a wife, and not to mention he just stopped drinking after 5 yrs of alcohol abuse. Well good for her she has her hands full. I wish her luck she must be a complete idiot to want all that baggage. Wait till they get out of the good sex stage and reality kicks in. Fantasy land will end soon. Right now I am plan Aing it. It has been hard but I got my meds and I feel a little more focused. Just want to get through the holidays. My H is not playing both sides as far as I go he says we are done!!!! If he had the money he would file for divorce. However he did not think this when he first moved out, changed his tune when the PA began of course. Well I am sorry to hear your story there are too many of us in this same boat. Cannot believe hopw inconsiderate these people are to the ones they claim they love. Pure selfishness I tell ya. Very sad!! As they say though once the fog lifts they are in for a rude awakening... I will be prepared.<P>Have a Merry Christmas.<P>Diana