Ahhh, what I wish for her. I wish that someday she finds the man of her dreams, the love of her life, just like I did. Then I hope that he cheats on her and the OW acts with every bit of evil towards her as she did towards me. She thinks it "broke her heart" to lose someone she was boffing for 6 months. Wait until she see how it feels when it is your husband.

That someday she feels the same amount of pain that I have felt for the last 8 1/2 months. If she does ever marry, I hope that her H cheats on her so she knows just how bad it hurts!!<P>Life would be easier if she would just evaporate, but I've given up on that happening

<p>[ January 09, 2002: Message edited by: OffOnOnOff ]</p>

The OW in my case is not married. Has been divorced before, however, and so knows exactly how it feels to lose a spouse. I can feel this amount of anger toward her because she has done this before to another married couple, because she tried to physically assault her, because she has said cruel and mean things to me and about me, because she is an evil individual who has been known to commit violence against her friends. She is a predator.<P>No, my husband is not innocent. He may even be considered JUST as guilty - however, I promised to love, honor and cherish him all the days of my life because I WANTED to. I never invited the slug into my life, yet in she came. I will never be able to forget that. Someday, I might be able to forgive, but I will never forget what she has done to me, personally.<P>sheesh! I really intensely dislike her...<P>------------------<BR>terri<BR><B>Courage</B><P>Whatever course you decide upon,<BR>there is always someone to tell you<BR>that you are wrong.<P>There are always difficulties arising<BR>which tempt you to believe that your <BR>critics are right.<P>To map out a course of action <BR>and follow it to an end <BR>requires courage.<P><I>Ralph Waldo Emerson</I>

Hmmm ... I only wish that the OW learn a lesson from all of this. I know that she was hurt - not nearly as badly as I was, but she too has feelings. She just made a big mistake getting involved with a MM with no intention of leaving his W.<P>I simply and very sincerely hope that she learns from this and does not do it again to another married couple - I pray that God will forgive her for her sins and that she will become a better, more moral person, just as I prayed for my H.<P>belld

This piece of trash cheated on his first wife with my W when I didn't even know her. My W claims she started the latest but he is married again and was weak enough to do this to yet another woman. I have no hate for them. I would like to rip out the OM's liver and eat it for dinner. I wouldn't even pi** on his face if it was on fire. <P>Sorry just getting things out. It has only been three weeks since I found out. Wife fell into the bad groove with the same guy again so she is not right. I love her too much to quit though. He told my W he would not leave his W because he obviously has too much to lose. I wouldn't really ever want to meet the guy because he may pollute the air I'm trying to breath.

This is a interesting question.<P>I don't really think I can wish anything on OW that would make her life any more difficult then it is already. She's just a suffering soul bounding through life seeing how many other lives she can disrupt.<P>Have it happen to her...it did...with her first H...perhaps the pain deadened her to the pain of others.<P>I think the utmost I could wish on her was to get what she wanted...my pitiful WS..eat up with insecurity...brillant but people dumb...a sucker for the taking...but no...in the end she didn't want him either...not for long...just long enough to take my world apart. What she thought she was taking was all a front...propped up by me and kept in good shape..it looked good but it had no substance.<P>So I'll wish her all the "unanswered prayers" she's wished in her life...she deserves them.<P>Faye<BR>

What comes around, goes around...and I hope that the former OW in our lives, gets what she justly deserves.

I hope that OW finds the love of her life and gets married. Then, after a number of years of marriage, when she is four months pregnant with their first child, her H has an affair and decides that he doesn't love her any more.<P>I think that's the only way she will ever understand what she did to me and my family. Because right now she is totally clueless about the impact of her actions. In fact, just this morning she sent my H a poem about love. "I know I shouldn't send this because we're only friends now..." SHE JUST DOESN'T GET IT!!!!