Well, I talked to my wife today. She had an anxiety attack and had to be taken to the emergency room, and I came to see her with my mother-in-law. <BR>All of a sudden she was feeling a lot better. We talked and I had started by letting her know that I was willing to try to save the marriage. I mentioned Plan A, and of course she wanted nothing to do with it yet, especially not giving up her job. However it seems like our reactions to everything just really follow the book to the letter, and it's scary to say the least. <BR>However I let her know that I was willing, and she decided to seriously think thru whether or not she wanted to save it.<BR>For the first time, I saw a glimmer of hope, and felt a little sliver of the love we had when we first got married. We actually got to talk for a relatively long period, and for the first time in a while we actually listened to what the other had to say. <BR>She's starting to show and admit how unhappy she is, and in some of the questions she asked me she showed me that she was losing trust for the OM. <BR>For the first time since this all happened, I've felt happy about something and had hope.<BR>I honestly pray that she decides to work through this and to give Dr. Harley a shot.<p>[This message has been edited by Mid (edited January 09, 2001).]