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Ivory:<P>I don't know if this got lost "in the noise", but I wanted to reiterate a point that schizzo, Mike, and I made to you.<P>I believe it's in your marriage's best interests for you to have a session with one of the Harley's before confessing, and then to make sure that there's an appointment afterwards for your wife, should she wish it. I'd handle it exactly as schizzo's husband did. It's cheap insurance, and probably one of the best safety-nets you can set for yourself.<P>Please consider it.
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Ivory,<P>Obviously, I agree. I posted a reply to you again, but did not repeat this point since it is up to you...<P>I actually spoke with Jenn Harley before my h's confession, and then again the next morning. It helped a lot to have her as an encourager that I could rebuild despite the despair I felt. I would probably have thrown him out without that help...
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by K:<BR><B>I believe it's in your marriage's best interests for you to have a session with one of the Harley's before confessing, and then to make sure that there's an appointment afterwards for your wife, should she wish it.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>I agree, and for the additional reason of providing tangible proof through recent effort of a desire to work on and save the marriage.<P>Mike<BR>
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Thanks for the suggestions. Counseling definitely is in order; whether local or with Harleys I don't know yet.<P>Ivory
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