Ok, my H and I are into our 6th month of recovery. Today I get an email from a close friend that has heard rumors that my H is involved with a coworker he is her supervisor. I have heard this woman's name and even met her. That a grievence has been filed by another regarding this matter. I go to my H and he tells me that this was too igsinificant to mention to me. That rumors fly all of the time in factories and that there is nothing to it. It brings up six months worth of garbage for me. He has been accountable to me and loving and remorseful all that he should be. Unfortunatly he is also a very skilled liar. What do I do with this info. Do I let sleeping dogs lie? Do I finally just admit that I don't want to live like this any longer? I have just finished reading the books by Phillip McGraw and felt so much better. NOw I am faced with choices. Again.... Advice Please I feel like I am floundering again. Jenni

Really, there isn't much you can do. It's a rumor and your H is denying it. You don't have proof, only hearsay, so until you actually get proof, let sleeping dogs die. BUT definitely keep your eyes and ears open, and trust your instincts.

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by harddaynight:<BR><B>He has been accountable to me and loving and remorseful all that he should be. </B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Well....I suppose that one way of looking at it is that his accountability should extend to this incident. If there is nothing to it, he shouldnb't have a problem keeping you informed as to the facts presented against him in the grievance hearing, etc.<BR>