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I feel I have reason to be angry, one of my so called good friends and my husband had an smutty e mail affair going on. It started out innocent e mails, then turned really nasty, I caught them and they promised it would stop well a few weeks later it all started up again, and it was worse this time, they even had pet names for eachother, I was sickened but ended up forgiving them both. Now a year later they are e mailing eachother again, it's not sexual that I know of, but I don't think they should be doing it at all, and my husband thinks I'm over reacting, I told him I want nothing to do with her and he doesn't understand why.Tell me, is it alright for them to even be talking to eachother?<P>Thanks, CJ<P>------------------<BR>CJ
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I don't think you are over reacting. It isn't appropriate. Sorry, have to go so made it quick.<p>[This message has been edited by Rick37 (edited January 18, 2001).]
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by CJ2001:<BR><B>I feel I have reason to be angry, one of my so called good friends and my husband had an smutty e mail affair going on. It started out innocent e mails, then turned really nasty, <snip>Tell me, is it alright for them to even be talking to eachother? </B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>I guess I would have to have more specifics to know if you were massively overreacting. On the face of it, any clandestine relationship with a member of the opposite sex that threatens a spouse is legitimate reason for concern.<P>Were they emailing each other dirty jokes, or was it more like cyber sex?<P>Do you suspect they may have had a physical affair?<P>Mike<BR>
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You are not overreacting, if your use of words...<P>Article on email/internet affairs and how to handle...<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/print/mbi5028p_qa.html" TARGET=_blank>www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/print/mbi5028p_qa.html</A>
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No dirty jokes, they were having cyber sex.<P>------------------<BR>CJ
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