About 11 days ago my wife of 3 years and my mate for 6 said she was leaving me. She said she was lonly and just couldn't take it anymore. I work alot, plus I drive an hour+ to and from work. I also know that I don't take my fair share of the domestic duties around the house. She has assured me there is no one else. I am having a hard time dealing with this. We went to a counseling session, but he told us if both don't want to work on the relationship it will just be a waste of money. I feel so sad and hurt I cannot describe it. I love her more than anything in the world. She says she still loves me, but is not "in" love with me. I am willing to do anything to work this out, but she says she just can't try anymore. She says we are just to different. I feel that everyone is different, but other people are able to make it work. I am looking for any advise that can help. Every time I see her I am ok until she leaves, then I just break down. If anyone has any thoughts I would love to hear them. Thank you.

Dawson, you've come to the right place. Have you read the information on this site? Have you read about plan A? I haven't been here long either, but it's already helped me tremendously (sp?). Go to NSR's General Welcome & read some of the posts there.<P>I'm so sorry you're here-but you'll get lots of good advice from the other posters here.

Dawson,<P>I posted to you on the other forum. I forgot to mention that weekends are much slower on here. Weekdays tend to get alot more responses, so expect more support during the weekdays.

Ricky37 and Bitsy,<P>Thanks for your posts and support.<P>Dawson