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Dancing all the way into a glimpse of light?
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My thoughts...go dancing, HAVE SOME FUN together & let the dust settle a bit more b4 you go for the "our relationship" talk. But, it does sound like positive movement is starting!<P>Good luck--<P>Kathi
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OOOO - I agree with Kathi. Don't rush anything. You can lead in dancing, but maybe let her set the pace in the relationship stuff.<P>Dave
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I've been lurking for months now. H and I in real recovery for a year now and doing extremely well. Madly in love, acknowledged by both sides, not bad for 34 years of marriage as of yesterday!!!<P>As to dancing, I've been taking lessons on my own for 5 years -- it got me through the A years, let me tell you, which, of course, I had no clue what exactly was going on but was miserable with my Affairland monster H -- at least doing competitions with my teacher gave me some self-esteem and sense of desirability, because guys came on to me quite a few times. Anyway, now my H and I take lessons together too and it is GREAT! A wonderful, romantic, safe way to make the emotional reconnection physical too. We love it. So, GOFORIT, boy!<P>
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Go for those lessons. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]:<P>Enjoy them & wait on doing anything else. There is a line from a song in White Christmas, " the best things happen while you are dancing".
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