I posted my background yesterday so if you want/need more information please see that post. Anyway, I have not heard from H since yesterday morning. It seems pretty apparent that he is avoiding me. I also found out that he lied again. He said he was going out of town on a trip and I found out that he didn't go. But, he didn't sleep at home either. So, I wonder where he was????<P>Anyway, before the OC died, H told me that he knew that I was going through hell. H told me that he thought about telling me it was over between us until after baby was born and custody resolved just to spare me more pain. But, he said he just couldn't tell me that it was over because he worried that I would find someone else during that 3 months.<P>So, I just don't understand. If the baby is dead, why is he still with her? He told me that he couldn't stand being around her. I am just so hurt and confused.