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Waiting and Wondering how long this is going to last?
#901337 02/01/01 12:06 PM
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Well, I know H was having and EA with OW at work since October of 2000. I guess I'm just waiting for it to end-I have done all I can do and I am on Plan B. I know affairs last up to 6 months - I guess I just really want to know when this one will end and the fog will be lifted. No paperwork, yet-thanks to a friend of the family attorney and H only took his clothes with him. I feel like this relationship will never end? Can anyone give me any insight or hope at this time? I am one of those people who cannot handle being out of control and have been working real hard at dealing with this but I am starting to wear down.
Re: Waiting and Wondering how long this is going to last?
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Hang in there and if you are doing a true Plan B, find someone to vent to and stay strong. This thing can last a very long time, especially if there is still contact between your h and ow. My h had a year long affair, she moved, and still he contacted her for the next year and a half. It has now been 3 months since last contact, but let me say that I am very tired and if there is contact again, he is going to have to leave and figure out what he is going to do. The best thing you can do right now is develop yourself. Find friends that are good, develop hobbies, etc. If your h comes back you will be a healthy, exciting woman. If he does not come back, you will still be a healthy, exciting woman.

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