I posted the following in the Recovery Forum, but I thought maybe we could change the words around and make it a PLAN A Blessing. <P>I know a lot of you are still struggling with a less than cooperative WS, and you may not be getting anything in return. But as a recovering/recovered WS, I think I really like this blessing, and I thnak God that my H had the patience and compassion to stay with me. <P>It was almost a year ago - when my H and I started in recovery - and I was probably in a very similar situation to many of you and your spouse. I don't mean to offend anyone by sharing this, I just thought for those struggling, well, maybe it might encourage you to keep trying. Anyway . . .don't mean to ramble.<P>"We thank you, O God, for the love You have implanted in our hearts.<P>May it always inspire us to be kind in our words, considerate of feelings and concerned for each other's needs and wishes.<P>Help us to be understanding and forgiving of human weaknesses and failings.<P>Increase our faith and trust in You and may Your prudence guide our life and love.<P>Bless our marriage, O God, with peace and happiness, and make our love fruitful for Your glory and our joy both here and in eternity."<P>--author unknown (but do you think it's a Harley?)<P><BR>

skm,<P><BR> Thanks so much for posting here!!!!! I need all the help I can get ,in what looks like a hopeless situation.