It helps me to come here an read the posts and to know I am not alone in this pain. It helps to know that other people have trouble eating and sleeping. It helps to know that regardless of all that happens that I am not the only one wanting the WS back. It helps to know that other people do not have kids and helps to know that they do have kids. (we do not have kids OW has 3) It helps to know other people have to also take "happy pills" to make it thru. It helps to know that other WS's want nothing to do with their spouse (my h has not wanted a THING to do with me since he left in November-wants me to ask other people to help with maintnance on car and house even) It helps to know that everyone here is a caring individual who has been hurt greatly. Friends try to help but just do not understand how it feels - they still have their spouses. It helps to know I am not alone....