I am wondering if anyone out there has had or is going through this problem. I know my husband loves me, and wants our marriage to work. He calls me every day..and stops by the house at least twice a week. He has brought over small gifts, for no reason. Last night I asked him over the phone if he wanted to go through a divorce he said probably. He has dropped hints of not being good enough for me, When he is at the house he feels uncomfortable and does not know why. He thinks another guy would be better for me and treat me far better than he had. He doesn't want to see the family, I think he is feeling to guilty. At times he can be so sincere and nice, and at other times so aloof..and give me short answers to make me stop asking questions. I feel like I'm sitting on a fence. one day he wants totry at our marriage, and the next probably a divorce. I feel like a yoyo. Any suggestions out there...How should I react..I know if I'm cold he feels better, thinking I'll leave for another guy. He thinks he is forcing me into that..showing no feeling... HELP<P>Kathie