Cleo - Departing from Rick's thread, I found a bunch of websites that offer anonymous e-mail messages for a variety of reasons - none were exclusive to infidelity, but it seems many would work. There are probably many more. Go to yahoo and search for "anonymous messages". Another way to do it would be to create a new e-mail address someplace and send your own. I giggle at the thought of a subject line like this: "Your dirty little secret is out!" Think that would get someone's attention?<P>Dave