When I was talking to my husband at work the other day he made some comments that I truly believe would have only been made to OW. They were regarding her job. We work in very different industries. When I asked him if he had forgotten who he was talking to he said he did not know what I was talking about. I repeated what he said to me and he said he knew what he said and still did not know what I was talking about. I got really paranoid thinking that he might still be in contact. I went into his old hotmail account that he gave me access to when I found out. I had changed the password so I know he doesn't use it anymore. I sent her a note that just said "hi! me ". I wish I had not done it!!! She called my H at work this mornign and asked if he sent her an email. She has been calling every 2 to 3 weeks and now I probably have set things back. What do I do? Do I tell H that I sent the email? Do I pretend I don't know what the hell she is talking about?