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how to snoop in email?
#903127 02/22/01 07:11 PM
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How do I snoop in my computers email? I know how to look into history and see web pages but what about emails that come in? Where do they reside? Would I be able to find them? My H had an email account that I didn't know about and he gave me access to it, but that doesn't mean that there may not be another. Any suggestions?
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I think if you run a search on the word "software" in GQII or the read only posts you'll find several old threads on software for snooping. Good luck.<P>Mike<BR>
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You can also look in the "cookies" directory on your computer for clues about places your computer has visited. I often found cookies for Excite and Yahoo, both of which offer free e-mail accounts. Let me know if you need better info and I can retrace my steps for you...it won't show you the e-mails, but you can guess at what might be going on!!
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Do check out <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum28/HTML/000480.html" TARGET=_blank> "Snoop Tricks for Betrayed Spouses"</A>.<P> [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Jim
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I don't know how much snooping you've done, but here's a few places to check:<P>If you have access to the account, check in the "trash" folder, and the "sent messages" folder. My X was done in by sent messages. She was very careful to delete the e-mails from OM, but her replies were easy to find.<P>If he's using Netscape, use Windows Explorer and look under the mail file under his user profile. You'll need to use Wordpad to open the file, but you can see whatever's in the inbox, outbox, or trash in a text format.<P>Also, I would recommend Winguardian. Its about 40 bucks, but once its on the computer, you can log every single word your H types...even the typos!<P>Be warned, though: You may be terribly hurt by what you read.
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All I did was I looked at the mail that had been sent out recently. H sent it to OW and a close friend-He used to not be interested in the email-I would read it and print off the funny stuff for him-if he did read it he would ask me who to fwd it to and most of the time he would send stuff to his mom and aunts also but I noticed recent stuff being sent to my best friend and OW than I found one fwd to OW on how good of a mom she was and he didn't even send it to his own mom-if she is such a good mom how come she is an adultress???? I also recalled our past conversations we would have and there were clues in those also... but by than it was too late she had already sunk her dirty claws in and he was long gone...

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