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just a question, how do you know when the love is gone? how do you know when there is nothing else left to savage? what are the signs of still loving someone? what makes them not want to try? what makes them want to try? what makes them run out when there was no fights or anything without trying? just a few thoughts
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hrtbroken;<P>I don't have the answeres but somehow we all seem to have the same questions. WHAT HAPPENED! <P>I ask myself why doesn't my H want to try to save a marriage and family with 3 small children involved? SELFISHNESS is a part of it.<P>I wish I had an answer. <BR>
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If you figure it out, please let me know:<BR> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/007682.html" TARGET=_blank>http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum37/HTML/007682.html</A> <P>I am the BS and I can't find any love in me for him anymore, but am not ready for the big "D" yet. I wish I could feel...how long will it take and what damage will I do in the mean time are some of the questions I have.
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i wish i knew too, i have 4 small children and when h does come by and see them i guess i think i still see the love but maybe it's wishful thinking and his crying when he leaves is just a front. h just ran w/o putting up a fight and i just let him go w/o a struggle. i keep asking myself why i hang on anymore and i can't seem to find the answer. i find myself doubting myself when i see an interest from him. if this is love then i don't want any part of it. i guess i was a conquest for him, he chased me for 2yrs before i would have anything to do with him gave me kids and then left. maybe the person he is now he was always that person and the person who he was with us he made up. all of these unanswered question and no where to turn
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An excellant book that helped me a lot is "Too Good to leave, Too bad to Stay." It doens't tell you what to do but it does help you to clarify your feelings. I would highly recommend it.
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If I had the answers to your questions I would have it made and a millionaire at that. I always ask myself these questions onl to come up nit knowing anything more than when I started. All I do know is that I still love my wife and that I have hope. Good luck to you.
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