Things are just going great for us. . I feel fairly confident that OW is really out of the picture and it doesn't even seem to bother him. I mean, he was upset on Friday night after he told her it was done, but ever since then he seems fine and happy, and he loves me. He tried to call me all night on Sat. from his gig to make sure I was ok, that OW wasn't bothering me (was upset cuz he couldn't get thru cuz I was on here! Whoops!). Then he called me @ 4:00 in the morning when he got to his friends house after tearing down, etc. Just to say he missed me. He stayed here last night, we took the girls & his son out to eat, it's been a while since the 3 of them have been together and they were laughing & acting like a bunch of idiots!! They were fun. He's already called me twice today from work. Said he's comming to stay here tonight too. He says he's starting to freak a little about moving, I told him he will only be there for a little while by himself. . he said, check you, you've got this all planned out don't you? (He was laughing). I said, yep, I just know.<P>I'm trying to be careful & not get too confident yet, but it's so hard when things are going this well. Am I making him feel so good that he's not even really going thru w/d from OW? Did she LB enough that it's now a relief to him?

I hope your filling his love bank..but if he's going to be away for a time by himself..he may hit some withdraws when he's away..just remember to fill his love bank when your apart.

Dear Bitsy,<P>Hey, it is good to hear some good news. Ok, you are being cautious, but I want to jump for joy for you and yours. <P>Take care and someday I hope we are all there sharing the same kind of good feeling you are having right now. <P>L.<P>