Good Day to all!!! <BR>Last night W called and wanted to know why I was so angry with her. Well I was very good until about 10 min into the conversation when she started professing her love for OM and his love for her. <P>I then had the opportunity to ask her why she didn't tell me the truth about her and boytoy. I said that it would have been easier to find out everything all at once rather than piece by piece and from other eople no less!<P>Her response was What do you want to know??? I said geez...I don't know? How about what everyone else knows. She said she didn't kknow what that was. Talk about skirting the issue..LOL<P>Right now she is not even admitting that what is going on is an affair, because they were just "friends" until she decided to move out. My god...it is like someone put a brain eater on her head and it is starving to death....Isn't it amazing that a once intelligent, compassionate, caring person can turn into a total stranger and then blame you for changing!!! lol<P>I guess the book gets longer with each post. I am assuming that eventually the material will dry up, because the creativity of these people is really lacking. Do the WS even remember what was said during the A or do they kind of have an erasure of the memory???<P>Mike

Well I do not get the time to post much but I had to add my input here, it is just to funny. I call it the A (alternate or affair) universe that these WS have moved to. When my H was there I first tried to understand this place, not possible since it is not real. Well then I tried to get him to see reality, not possible since he was not even in the same realm of existence as reality. Third I just began to agree with him, he really hated this. I would say oh well if I make you so sad and unhappy being without me should cause you great joy - I left- he was still unhappy- imagine that. Then he would say well you don't appreciate me, you don't take time out for us- I would say you are right that note I wrote listing all that I loved and appreciated (even had the exact word on it) about you did not show appreciation, and all that money spent to babysitters, so we could have a night out, must not have actually happened. My fault your right. Oh and this OW you are right she must be GREAT! I mean all those other guys at work she has slept with could not possible compare to you. She must be your "soulmate" your dream woman:<BR>smart: aside from the fact she can barley speak English or finished high school. The fact that she has no ambition and enjoys it when she is laid off and can just sit at home. I mean here I am with a BS in physics and a job in which I make more than you. I mean how could I even compare with such a woman. I mean she is a amazing mother and I am sure you can not wait to tell the kids about her. DCFS as only been at her house on a couple of occasions. Your family, you are right I am turning them against you. They were actually extremely proud of you for what you are doing I was just able to convince them otherwise. In fact I can't think of one reason, other than a few 100, why you should ever move off of A universe. Why it must be paradise with your dream woman, whats that it is starting to get a little warm there, and she is starting to sprout little horns on her head? <BR>You know I guess if I had done all that my H did I would move to A universe, Alias denial land, also. It would be the only place where when I looked into a mirror it would not break into a thousand jagged pieces. What we can all take comfort in knowing, is that this A universe does not actually exist and someday in someway the WS will find this out. When reality hits - watch out it is going to hit big time! Keep up the smiles and remember at least you can look in the mirror with honor, dignity and pride!<BR>

My x tried to pass off her om/h as responsible person. WHen I pointed out to her that he had 2-4 affairs previous that she had told me about and that he had been fired from his last two jobs, she said she had lied about all the affairs and he hadn't been fired that people had been out to get him there. And now they were after her so that is why she lft her local job.<P>She know lies about lying. IT is funny now.

Joyful....too funny!!!<BR>My Wife also must be an occupant of the new world! I wonder if they would have a hard time electing a president considering that they all have the same lies and nobody could believe a thing they said. Oh yea...kind of like what we have now!!!<P>My favorite line now is "I guess we never really new each other". I mean really, 12 years together, 2 kids, who would think that I have been living with someone I never knew. <BR>Darn...I could have sworn that the person that has shared my bed for 12 years was my wife...I guess not. The fact that she stayed with me for 12 years is quite amazing considering that she "settled" back then and now has found her "soul mate". Glad I could take up those last few years and occupy her time while she looked for the right one!<P>Mike<P><P>------------------<BR>the probability of someone watching you...is directly proportional to the stupidity of your actions