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My H wont stop being mean and hateful towards me. its been 4 months since his EA and i dont think hes in withdrawal from her but everytime i ask him a question he is plain out rude in his reply and very short.... most of the time H acts like i should already know the answerand thus answers me like im stupid. the only time H is nice is when he wants to have sex.<BR>and i cant help but think he wouldnt be mean to her like he is to me. and im begining to resent him for it<P>------------------<BR>"The human Heart is often the victim of the sensations of the moment; Success intoxicates it to presumption and disappointment defects and terrifies it."<BR>~~Valney~~
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Sounds like he is depressed or in withdrawal still or both. We went thru this kind of behavior for about 6 months after my H's EA, until he finally admitted that he was so depressed over all this that he needed counseling. Of course, I'd suggested counseling before (as had his doc frind), but you cannot push...really all you can do is be supportive and try to hang on...<P>Hang in there--<P>Kathi
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