I just wanted to take this chance to thank all of you who have been a friend or have in any way helped my dear friend bitsy. We met 4 yrs. ago. I knew Jim before her. I started to date their best friend, who I am now engaged to. If you people only could begin to know the difference you have made in her life. At first I did'nt know how to help her through her breakup. I felt like my hands were tied, she could not take the advice I had to offer. Her and I just do things differently. Then after a few months, I noticed a subtle yet definite change about her. A growing, almost a inner peace. That is when she told me about MB, and I read all about it. I have some relationship problems of my own, (but thats a whole nother story). I will not go into alot of detail but just to say you folks have made a big differnce in her life. And for that I feel truely blessed. I thank-you, and pray for peace in all of your lives. You will hear from me soon..................Until then,just call me ....the songbird.....with love.

Hey guys, this is from one of my very best friends. And she's right about how much help you have all been to me. There is no way I would be even close to the point I am right now w/out you all. I have learned so much.<P>At first I didn't really talk to her very much about what I was doing, you know, people don't understand. I just remember telling her "I'm not hanging on to his coat tails, I'm working on stuff, I know what I'm doing, ok?" She'd say I know you do. .then I slowly started telling her more & more. She's been really great. It's good to also have a "real" person to talk to. One of the things she recently told me that has really stuck in my mind was when OW was fussing at him saying "I've really been going thru a lot of sh&^ because of you sleeping w/her" (OMG!). I said to songbird, how did she get into my place in just 3 months??? She told me, "she's not in your place".<P>B, sorry it took me so long to respond to your post, but you know lots of stuff has been happening lately. Love you!