ok, i said that i wasn't going to talk with him but i had to call him last night regarding him bringing me child support money. ok, he said he was just trying to call me and that he would bring ig. a couple of hrs later he called me and asked if he could drop it by before he went to work in the morning at around 630am and said that if i didn't answer the door he would leave it in the mailbox. said he was just going to get him something to eat then go back to the rv, ok, don't really know if he was lieing, but i don't see any reason for him to lie since he knows i knows about the ow #2. but for reasons we all know, he probably was. ok get to this morning, at 730 still no money. called cell, got his vm and this is what i said, i guessed you forgot, so that we are interferring in your new lifestyle, have a good one. so anyway about 15 min later he called, i didn't answer, didn't feel like it. he must of called 4 times on regular phone and 2 times on my cell phone. he left one messaged and he said, sounded like he was hurt, that he didn't forget anything that he just woke up, that he didn't forget, kind of stumbling, said whatever, to check my mailbox said bye a couple of times and then said he was on his way to work. whatever, when he left that message he was out front leaving a money order. ok, did he get my point, i don't know. i was also meaning by him forgetting, forgetting everything. so did i lb? right now i don't care, i didn't say it yelling or anything, i'm just stating the facts. but he did sound upset so i hope it bothers him all day at work. friend thinks that i should call him to tell him that i recieved the money, i don't think so. it's not even enough. he can wine and dine himself and others and act like a big **** while we are suffering. so, what can i do to show him reality?