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I was reading a post that made me wonder about this. Are any of you or have any of you had experience with a BS that in retaliation became a WS? My H was a BS...I had ended the affair before he found out, but the OP couldn't leave it go and decided it would be nice for it all to become public (sarcasm intended). Anyway, 2 mos. after D we separated. At this time my H began his own A...which lasted about 6 mos. That is now over too and we are in recovery. My question, or my problem is that he has never really apologized for it. He feels like he was just (after all we were separated and he did file for divorce...though that too has been stopped). I say while I could understand why he did what he did...it was still wrong. Any thoughts?
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I am a BS who DID have a one-time PA with another woman. My W's affair had been going on for about four months, and we had been seperated for about 2 months. I had actually signed divorce papers. Anyway, shortly after my blunder (which at the time my W did not know about) W ended relationship with OM. We have been in recovery since. WHAT I DID WAS STUPID AND WRONG AND IT HAS NOT HELPED OUR RECOVERY. I AM ASHAMED OF IT. I AM ALSO EMBARRASSED AT HOW I TREATED THIS OTHER WOMAN AS I ENDED THINGS VERY HARSHLY IMMEDIATELY AFTER MY WIFE CAME BACK. To those BS's considering such a stupid action, my advice is to continue to be strong.<P>JB
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