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Is it a lovebuster to...
#905782 03/21/01 05:27 PM
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On Friday, H is supposed to tell OW that he is trying to rebuild marriage and that OW should not try to contact him. While I am very excited about this, I am also a bit skeptical--I've been burned too many times.<P>Anyway, this is my question...I have this overwhelming fear of being abandoned by H. I think this is natural after what I've been through. However, is it a lovebuster to tell H that I feel this way?<P>Also, I am a bit obsessed because of my fear of abandonment. I feel like if I don't call H several times a day, that he won't tell OW on Friday to not contact him anymore and that he will forget about me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.<P>Dolphin
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Dear dolphin, I understand your feeling completely. My H gave no contact letter to OW almost 2 weeks ago and today was the first day I could go to work and let H out of my sight without calling him constantly. He did not seem to find my insecurity a love buster and reassured me each time I called or questioned him about where he was and what he was doing. I'm not saying I'm not obsessed now, but the more time passes and the less depressed he seems over missing the OW, the less obsessed I become. Good luck.

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