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Help me understnad?
#905960 03/23/01 09:15 AM
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H had session with Jennifer Harley yesterday. H said that she gave him two options, 1.) quit job, because OW is his secretary 2.) leave me doing Plan B. Since leaving is what he wanted to do orginally, which was why I suggested a session for him with MB, I guess I sort of know which he'll choose. I've worked so hard Plan Aing and trying to keep this family together, that I am just at a total loss here for an explanation. I thought that was what MB was about, keeping the family together?<P>Help...I need to understand? What a situation--d-day was on my son's 13th birthday and now this comes on my 46th birthday. I think my son and I are going to give up on birthdays altogether.<P>Sad, Lonely and utterly confused!<p>[This message has been edited by Aries55 (edited March 23, 2001).]
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Dday (for me, confession day was later) was on our daughter's birthday. My birthday is also tainted along with Thanksgiving, Christmas, and Valentines Day.<P>I was a little confused, which way do you think he will go? When is he to decide? Be patient and pray he will see the light.
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This morning he told me he couldn't see quitting his job. He worked too hard to get where he's at to give it up now. His words.Guess I know where I fit in to his priorities?<P>He's suppose to talk with her again on Thursday to talk about his plan of action, so I guess that's when he'll come to a decision. I feel totally numb right now. I can only hope that there is a better solution out there than his leaving. Is anyone else going through a similar situation? Is this an all or nothing deal of No contact? Plan B or no contact at workplace?
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Won't change jobs or get a new secretary? File an anonymous third party sexual harrassment complaint because of the supervisor/subordinate relationship. That ought to light a fire up his a**.<P>Sorry - in a fiesty mood today.<P>WAT

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