<<<fairydust,<BR>And your point is? Perhaps that I don't have the right to express that I don't understand something, or to offer an opinion that is different from yours. But then, we've had this discussion before, haven't we? I don't find it necessary to go over that again.>>><P>I'm really sorry Peppermint, I think we are not understanding each other. I truly never meant to be confrontational with you. Of course you are entitled to express your opinions, just as I am. In the thread about the no contact letter you got really agitated with me and I was kind of confused as to why. All I said was that it's not a good idea in ALL cases. By all means, if the BS wants it, it should be done and in many cases it's a great idea. But in OUR case it would only have made things worse. All I was trying to do was express my opinion just as you are. If we disagree that's fine with me. In these situations what works for one couple doesn't always work for all . So once again, I apologize for making you angry, that was never my intention.<p>[This message has been edited by fairydust (edited March 29, 2001).]