Well, I'm at a crossroads again. Right now my WS is sitting in his car outside our business hugging and kissing with his girlfriend. No attempt is being made to hide this activity from me although I suppose he went outside so it won't be in the office. It's crazy!!! Almost as if he expects me to come busting out there and fly into them.<P>We've been separated for close to a year and have basically been getting along pretty well...no LBing on my part...I've just been kind of working on rebuilding our relationship slowly...but I have not been reacting to his relationships with other women in any way...any now this.<P>I'm wondering if he just wants to break it off with me and just doesn't know how...and this is his cowardly way of doing so. Or is he trying to make me jealous???? This is just crazy. And let me tell you the OW is not someone he would ever consider having a "real" affair with.<P>Please someone help. I'll sitting here trying to decide how to react....but I've LBed in situations like this in the past and he know's that.<P>I need some wisdom. Please.<P>Faye

For a Plan A that was good and long enough...<BR>...it seems that it could be time for Plan B.<P> <P>Jim

Thanks Jim. Can always count on you to come to the rescue.<P>Yes, I guess you can get too comfortable in Plan A if nothing really is too bad. The original OW in this case is out of the picture and the present OW (OWomen) appear to just be food for his ego. He doesn't care anything about them. He wanted to come home in September but I didn't think he had any real remorse or realization of having done anything wrong,,,so I said no. So we've kinda been "dating" for a few months...nothing physical...just kinda friendly contact. Thought maybe we could rebuilt our relationship from the ground up. Now this...don't know what to think.<P>Talked to SIL...she thinks he just "thinks this is cool...that it makes him a real stud muffin...and that he thinks I should not be concerned with it". She bases this on conversations she had with him.<P>Anyway, I didn't LB...just acted as if nothing happened...and he couldn't have been nicer...don't know what he expected...but whatever it was he didn't get.<P>Plan B would be so difficult with a business in common...dependent on both of us equally...if I leave then the business is probably dead...a lot to ask...and even more to give up.<P>Perhaps that's what he wants...he's given up everything else. Who knows..WSs are all alittle crazy don't you think. <P>Or maybe he's afraid of getting closer...so he throws a road block in the way...I really can't figure him out.<P><BR>Faye