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What happened after your Ws filed>>>
#906731 03/30/01 08:26 AM
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Hi all,<P>If your Ws filed for a d. and the affair was still in progress, did the affair begin to fade or end abruptly when the Ws was hit squarely in the face with the financial and emotional consequences of what d. will do...<P>elo
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I think my H's A was winding down when he got hit with the papers. I think the reality of losing most of his money, not seeing the children and losing some of his possesions (well, everything in the house!) jolted him. I also think that having him charged in writing (Adultery is againist the law in Va, not really punished hard, but lokks imprseeive on paper, helped too. I also had HER named listed on our papers as someone who could have NO contact with my kids. It would be a violation of a court order, punishable by fine and a night in jail! I don't think she would like that since she was convined she could be a better mom to my kids than me! Stupid HO!
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Well I think there are a lot of WS's that change their mind in regards to divorce once they start to get a clear picture of what is all involved. But, there are also those out there that only become more bitter after seening the financial strain. Your husband is acting pretty nasty right now and I think your at the point where you should be concerned about the wellbeing of yourself and your children.
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My H has filed against me and nothing has changed in his attitude-still the same ol' same ol'(its been a little over a month since he filed)....I guess he really does wnat it over......Hope your situation turns out better!!!!

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