my wife has told me she does not love me any more and has thrown me out. we have 6 kids and i love her with all my heart.i think it is because we did not talk and she will not talk about it to me. we have just started talking for the kids ,but not about us and why this has happened .i love her so much i feel my life is over and i want her back HELP what do i do

Is there someone else in her life?<P>If not, you must become her friend you must talk to her and you must treat her with kindness, consideration and respect.<P>Become an excellent father and see your kids regularly, call them every night for "tucks" and say good night to her as well if you get the chance.<P>call her and tell her you can come over and watch the kids to let her have some time to herself - 6 kids she might need that. Did you do that when you were together, did you help around the house, or did you just work and come home and wait for stuff to happen around the house?<P>If she works - surprize her at work, show up to buy her lunch. Keep conversations happy and upbeat, do nto argue, ***** or complain. Ask her to join a gymn with you. <P>Go for bike rides with your kids and ask her to join you. Take the kids to a matinee etc.<P>I think you are getting the point, reconnect, treat her with kindness, talk to her become her best friend, someone whose company she enjoys.<P>and hang in there because it is along journey.<P>good luck<BR>

no there is no one else and she does not work. i see the kids 3 times a week .i baby sit when i can so see can go out to a club till 3 when i can. thanks for the letter back i will try to be a good friend to her an see how it goes

Madninja,<P>My heart was broken when my husband first left me.I thought I would surely die from my pain. No matter where I turned I got the same answers, you will get over it, maybe God didn't want you two to be together, if he is not willing than you must go on. Go on ...how? I don't want to get over it. I had no hope. Then I found this web site and found others that were hurting like me. Someone suggested this following web site because the testiomies offered a lot of hope. I needed hope. I had been praying for God to speak to me...He was faithful and spoke to me through this site and the book. I you need hope...go here.http://www.restorem.org/home.shtml<P>gentle